Catalyst for Change

I had an Uncle who passed away 31/2 years ago. It was termed a "hunting accident" but really he just fell off the tailgate of a pickup as he and his friends were riding to a different pheasant hunting location. He didn't leave a will. He did leave behinds friends and family.
The whole event was a catalyst for change, some good and some bad, but I'm convinced that is how life is mapped out. Unfortunately, just like a rainy campout we always remember the really bad times, but, we have such a struggle to remember the really good times. Put Blue Hill Nebraska in both columns. Put cold beer (for an underage kid) at the end of a wheat harvesting day in both columns.